When I decided to make the move to work at home, the most difficult obstacle was telling my family and friends I was leaving my job. Why? Because I knew people were going to doubt me and second-guess my decision. Giving up an entirely secure job as a Principal and giving away the income and benefits was probably viewed as a foolish decision. I knew if I were going to become successful, I had to make sure I surrounded myself with people that were generally positive. It only takes a negative thought or two to create self-doubt within yourself.

I turned off my ringer on my cell phone and didn't answer calls from a many a people the first week I resigned. I didn't want to hear an ounce of anyone questioning my decision to work at home. If someone was going to laugh at me or bash me, I'd rather have them do it when I'm not around. Fortunately, I have had numerous people who either don't say anything or are generally supportive of what I'm doing; some have actually asked me if they could work alongside me!

You can't escape all of the negativity and doubters. Instead, use it to your advantage. No one believes you can work at home or open your own business? Prove them wrong and use it for motivation. When my energy is low, I visualise what people may be saying about my career change.

Also, realize people generally have your best interests in mind. Don't get upset or defensive by what may be perceived as negativity. I guarantee you most want you to be successful, but dropping everything for personal freedom and taking huge risks are not what our society has been trained to learn. A close friend recommended another principal job opening for me. I appreciated his advice and help. There is no doubt he wants me to do well, most friends and family do, but it isn't everyday one gives up their profession for a riskier undertaking.

Work at home, then stay away from negative influences, but don't avoid everyone and everything. Some of these people may end up being your best and most honest resources. Find the people who are excited and supportive about your new venture. Communicate with them often, they will be your support system when the negative thoughts creep in your head.